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SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: too worked up

I have been so concerned about my size for the longest time because I am what you might call a "grower" opposed to a "shower"... I have a larger erect to flaccid length ratio. Every time I would see guys in locker rooms, or whatever, they were always always always bigger than me, so I assumed that everybody else was bigger erect too. I would get so worked up about it when I was with girls that I couldn't even get hard a lot of the times. However, much to my enjoyment, after reading all this I have realized that my erect length is maybe even a little larger than normal. Moral of my rambling... don't be too quick to judge on soft length.

Editor's Note: Good point. Also very true according to surveys and stats.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Size doesn't matter. Daniel

I feel that you should be happy with the size of you penis whether it be large, small, or medium sized. You should do you best to impress who you are with with your personality, not your size. If your wife, girlfriend, f****friend, or whoever says you need a bigger penis try to do something different with them next time. Give her oral sex (focus on clit) or talk dirty to her or ask her if she wants to try something new, whatever she wants. If she still is not satisfied, then you made a wrong choice in who you chose to be with. I have an average sized penis and all the women that I have been with have praised what I do during sex. They have never complained about my size or anything of the such. I try to keep her attention away from that and usually don't even think of it. I make her orgasm at least 3 times each time. It's not the size that matters, it's what you do with it. And what you do to her. Be confident and trust yourself.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: living with it

I have always measured my penis from the base of the shaft, not the testicles. This gives me a modest measurement of 2.5 soft and 5.5 hard. I understand from you're charts, and that of others, that is considered average but I have always had hang-ups over it. I hate using public toilets, and it has prevented me from taking part in any sport where I would have to change in front of others. My point is that peer pressure has a lot to play with how you feel about it and effects self confidence just as much as sex. Sex with my ex wife was never how I wanted it to be. I never felt like I was satisfying her, however, the sex my girlfriend and I enjoy is fantastic which goes a long way to prove that great sex is more about the emotions and feelings shared by two people than the size of your member. At the end of the day, you can't do anything about it, so just try and live with it.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Size Comment - Not Question

For many people concerned out there about their penis size.. keep in mind that women's vagina's vary just as much as our penis' do. I have a 6 inch penis when erect and my hit my wife's cervix all the time and have to be careful. So keep in mind that having a giant penis may not be what you want.. she tells me all the time that I'm the perfect size and that if I were any bigger there is no way she could handle it. So be happy with what you have and just learn what your significant other likes.. I was a virgin when I met my wife and I just kept trying things and asking what she liked and now I have a pretty good idea what she wants and how to get her off after 4 years of marriage.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: I don't see the point as a 18yo

I just checked, and I am 4.5" soft, 6.5" up, and I don't care. I have actually taken the nerve to ask girls around my age about size. All in all, they have said that it doesn't really matter, like us men thinking that women spend too much time putting on make up, when they look great anyway. The only thing they have said, as others have said, is girth is what matters. I am a long and thin guy, so they don't worry about me hurting them, and I am sick and tired of the guys saying constantly that they are bigger than whoever. It honestly sounds juvenile, because that is all they talk about. Oh well, they are teenage guys, and what do you expect.

SEXUALITY: Other
GENDER:
TITLE: penis size not important

I am a male with a 2 in hard on, and almost nothing soft. I am happy with that because I am a pre op transsexual. I do know that I am more interested in the romancing and love I get from my man than his penis size. Speaking as a female, that is what we love, the sweet romance and real love. Don't be so worried about your size but how romantic you can be.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: ParadoxZero

----first of all I used the name because there are certain people I want to read this who will know who I am, they might or might not read this ----i am 16, 17 in june, have a penis size of about 7"(slightly smaller) and girth of nearly 5" I just want to say how sorry I am for guys with 10" because I had this GF, my first GF and only so far, which she broke up with me nearly 3 weeks ago, but I digress, we started having sex 2 or 3 months before she broke up with me, and yesterday I was talking to her and she said that every time I put it in her it hurt her and I felt bad about it, I cant hurt a girl(intentionally), and I never lost control of myself when I was in her......maybe I did or not, I subconsciously might be trying to make myself seem like a better person...anyway I just wanted to say this to reinforce what others said about giving your woman oral pleasure, she really enjoyed when I did that to her, and so will your woman, and I have to admit I like licking her as well. oh well I guess that's all I have to say

For many years, I had little confidence and suffered as a result (scared to approach women) as I considered myself below average. When I met my current girlfriend, she convinced me otherwise and got me to, reluctantly, measure it. Turns out it is 8" erect and 2" wide. This encouraged us to become swingers as she is bi-sexual as well as having a very high sex drive anyway. I always ask my female sexual partners why they are so complimentary about my "big" dick. The majority say it's purely the look and the feel in their hands (plus the curiosity factor of trying a large penis) but that the actual act is little better than with a smaller one and in fact can prove painful. The result is that I rarely achieve full penetration, now, due to my not wishing to cause discomfort. Happily, there are other ways of having fun with a big penis although I do enjoy the feeling of full penetration with the odd female who is able to accommodate me. Guess what I'm getting at is we should stop striving for perfection as large or small bring their own problems and joys.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Shorter penises are just fine! by shortnthick

My fully erect penis is 4" long. And according to all size surveys this is a lot shorter than average. Has this been a problem in my life? No. I've dated a lot of gorgeous women and satisfied them very well in bed. I've been married for many years and have some great kids too. I've been very successful in business and have had a blast in life. So ... if you have a shorter than average penis don't let it get you down guys. Keep your chin up and have some confidence in your manhood. What makes you a man is WAY more than just the size of your penis.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: "The big Black lie"

let me tell you guys something.I am 34 black male and my penis size is 8 fully hard and 4 soft. First af all it is just a myth that all black guys have big dicks. I have been with girls who have been with over 200 black guys and some white and they say they thought the black guys were going to be big ... turns out they were small and I know this is true because when I had sex witrh them they would bleed and it was too painful and they would make me stop. So dont believe the hype and dont watch porno they are so fake, they make it seem that all blacks have huge everything. coming from a black man it is all a myth.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: GIRLS LIE

Yes it is true girls lie. They make it seem like they want a big penis all the time that's all you hear about these days. Well i'm hear to tell you all the truth, girls just say that and I dont know why. I have an 8 inch penis 2" thick and every time I stick it in any girl they scream for mercy and make me stop they get up holding their stomach and crying, oh but I thought they wanted a big one? you see what I mean? they act like they want a 14 inch 5" thick dick but they dont they cant even handle a 8 incher. and hey if a girl can handle a dick 10 or 11 inches I dont want none at all, that is so gross it is so a turn off and I bet her snatch is busted out who would want that? us guys want small and tight. And another thing girth is bull, girls tell me i'm too thick at only 2" thick.And hey guys stop watching porn, that's why every one is so caught up on size, dont you know that's what the producers go out and look for? big dicks, big tits, and big asses that's why girls are going out getting boob jobs, they think that's all we like is huge tits and it is not true, I like small tits so that goes to show you they are just like us just because of fake porn. and one last word a woman would rather have a guy with a small penis with a good tounge than A guy with a big dick who cant eat.

I'm 17 years old and I have a penis the is 7 inches, I'm quite embarrassed about this, I don't know what to do. I hate wearing shorts cause of the bulge. anything to help.

I think you are self-conscious of your penis, which is within average range. People cannot tell by the "bulge" in your pants how big it actually is. Only you know. You need to stop thinking about it so much.

As a 34 year old woman who has had more partners than birthdays, I can comfortably say that I've seen a wide range of sizes and shapes. There have been a few that were large enough to be uncomfortable, and a few small enough to go almost unnoticed. That being said, I still endorse the good old saying "it's not the size of the tool, but how you use it. And I'll add, for those men out there who feel that they're on the lower end of the spectrum, that performing oral sex on a smaller penis is MUCH more satisfying than on a larger one. Imagining the pleasure I'm able to give when I can take the whole thing in my mouth has to be almost as exciting as receiving it!

Okay I just want to ask all the 11.5/12/13 year olds who have written on this page...why the hell are you even worrying about how big your dick is at your age? Hell, why is anyone? There's almost nothing you can do about it, so why devote so much time and anxiety to it? IT DOESN'T MATTER. Life is too short to spend hours, days, months, years, killing yourself over how big or how small your penis is. Your dick is exactly that...your dick. An ugly little piece of flesh and tissue that is not very good to look at anyway. So why want it bigger?

I think i may have penis envy,  you all should all be glad you have one. For some reason this topic really interests me as men are generally so obsessed with their penis size, but its not something i ever really seem to notice when im with a guy. i once slept with this guy once and then he got arrested and went to jail for 2 yrs, and it was only when i gave him head for the first time when he came out that i noticed he had a exceptionally massive one, i didnt really notice or think about it when i slept with him, i think women are generally concentrating on other shit when ur banging them, guys. my point is i dont even know why u all worry so much, i even know of some guys who shave their pubes becos they think it makes it look bigger, i mean, wtf, maybe its just me but im not paticularly bothered how VISUALLY stimulating it is. personally i think a good size is something u can suck for more than 10 minutes without getting jawache.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: helpful dolly

ok guys. the vagina is a muscle, just like the penis. it stretches for big ones then snaps back into shape for smaller ones. its not a gaping hole that u may get lost in. if you put ur finger in one it will cling to it. so as long as your dick is thicker in girth than an average index finger you should be cool. If u have a very fat one just make sure you get her nice and wet and you'll get there in the end. sorry to patronise everyone who already new this. DISCLAIMER: i can not speak for any woman who doesn't do kegels (google it if dont know that one)

Editror's Notes: Actually, the penis is not a muscle. The penis changes shape by increased blood flow. It is actually increased blood pressure within the penis that causes it to chage shape and size during erection. However you are correct about the vagina capabilities.

SEXUALITY: Gay
GENDER: Male
TITLE: lou

All men are too obsessed with peniz size, i'm gay and i remember my first time in a locker room, all the straight guys were checking each other out, men read too much into it, admittedly the guy with a dick slapping against his knee gets noted, a guy with a penis just poking out of his pubic hair gets noted a small guys average dick looks bigger than a large guys average dick...... Straight men only see porn stars erect, and thats the point as they have large penises, the average joe has his penis which will give him immense pleasure in life, the size cant be changed so he has to live with and celebrate what he has! I think if there was more male nudity in film and generally we would all see hey of course"" there are big and small but there are an awful lot of average and we all fit in there. On a personal note i love my penis, I never understood the talk about small or large when i started having sex, just broad or wide in fact (and that was only for finding the right condoms) all the penises i handled erect were so diverse that size wasnt really on my mind, then i encountered my first small one , had great sex , was really a lot of fun , bottom line loved it, i recently had sex with a very well hung man, i was very turned on because it was big it was like it had its own personality, its owner liked having a big dick but i think he didnt only like being known as the big dicked guy! I know a guy, his penis is huge, hes straight, hes known for having a huge dick, hes extremely ugly and despite his appendage has no unusual sexual success, moral make the most of what you got!

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: on size, married woman

I have to say, i've seen alot of porn movies. I am a married female (age 23). my first boyfriend was quite large, and the sex sucked. I am apparently of a small build "down there" and no matter how slow he went, it hurt! and giving a blow job was exhausting for my jaws (he was both long and girth-y), so he never got much. I am now married to a man on the lowish end of average in lenth and girth, and he's great! we can have "quickies" if we want them, i can take him deeper in my mouth (which is a great turn on for him and myself), and he has this nice little curve so that when fully erect, he hits my g spot quite well. if he was bigger, it wouldn't get so much direct stimulation, and the sex would not be so good. the reason why women watch porno's with big penises in them is that it is more visually stimulating. but try to get the average woman to actally want to sleep with one that big, and you'd be hard-pressed to find one. all this is in my opinion, and the opinions of my female friends, there are exceptions to every argument.

Most guys think, that women care about size, but most of us dont care, penis are uggly looking no matter the size, it's how it's used that matters, most women would appreciate foreplay for a change, so stop worrying about the characteristics of the equipment an learn how to use it? but dont forget, that without foreplay woman wont enjoy it and that is especially true if the guy is too big

If you think you are too small, think again. Maybe your partner is too "big" and needs to practice Kegels. Exercises that keeps the vagina tight and helps contour around the mans penis. Srong muscles are apparent when the womans vagina will hold the mans head tight durning exiting. I am 40 had 2 boys and have no problem with size because I am confident about myself that a small mans penis will please me just as well. Guys don't work FOREPLAY & ENJOY IT!

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: silvercc

I am a40 year old male penis length is 5.5 inches girth is 5.75 inches and i feel that Iam very small.However my wife argues that I have a perfect size.I think she says that to make me feel better. I had a penile enlargment surgery about 2 years ago and actually shrunk from 5.5 inches to about 2 inches it took about 1.5 years of using a pump and weights for traction to get my normal size again. So, I urge guys out there that if you do have penile enlargement, find a doctor that will be there for you after the surgery. After care is very important. The doctor that did surgery on me told me that I bothered him too much and not to call him anymore because he was a very busy man. I ended up getting a very bad infection, so I called the doctor again to let him know that I was going to the hospital... then he agreed to see me again. He did an emergency operation to clean out the infection. He also promised to redo the original surgery at no additional charge, but he informed me that I needed to wait at least 1 year. Then, one year later, I called the doctor to remind him of the surgery; but he refused to do it unless I paid him $10,000 dollars. This doctor just bullshited me to save his medical license, and is a man with no honor to his promise.

I know you have said that their is most likely no way that a exercise can increase the saiz of a penis, but is there really anything I can do?

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I'm 18 and I think I'm done growing, at 4.5 to 5 inches, because I've heard my father and brother are about the same at 51 and 24 respectively. My girlfriend doesnt care about the size of my penis and it really does the job, over and over and over. I'm not trying to gloat, sorry, I'm just trying to make other guys feel more comfortable. SIZE DOESN'T MATTER!

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: penis use

my penis is about 6", and i thought it was small, and its only average of all males. i had sex with a girl and she said she liked it but i knew she really didnt, so i blamed it all on my penis size. i then started spent lots of money on pills and things that never really worked. then i sleep with another girl that i loved from my heart and the sex was better then ever. she loved it and cant get enough. sex with someone u love and some one u dont depends on u but i relize that penis size doesnt matter, its just how u use it and what it means to u!!!! the big thing to relize is be COFIDENT IN YOUR MANHOOD, think ur the big boy on the block, it will help tramendislly.

i realy dont understand what this means: Girth

and when i see answers to that size, i get confused with width.

the width of my penis accross is almost a inch and a half, and allmost 6 in length, (im 16).

so what is girth? i mean i see people saying 5 inches, and i know for a fact, a dick cant be 5 inches wide.

can some one explain?

Alright, the bottom line is that you get what you get. Genetics is a bitch but thats life. I have a 6 penis and I have to say it works just fine. I get the wife off and it feels good for me too. Would I prefer to have a bigger one? I guess so but its not gonna happen so what the heck is the point of getting obsessive about the size issue.

Quit worrying about the size thing. It is what it is and thats it. Worrying won't make it get bigger. So just concentrate on how you use it and things will work just fine.

I was always concerned when I was younger about a lot of the same things that many of your readers are. I was never ashamed of anything, but once you fall in love, it won't matter. Get your technique down, and she will not care. You have to be comfortable with yourself, or you'll never truly enjoy yourself. I've watched porn since I was 11, but you have to understand not everyone is built like that. Everytime I have sex with my wife, it's better than the last. Find the right person, and they'll never judge you like that. We all can't be pornstars, but trust me, when you cum, it feels the same. Don't worry, it will work out.

I'm about 7 at full timber.

I had a few different girlfriends during highschool . . . and I remember a recurring theme when having sex was that I always had to be super careful not to hurt them. I tried sleeping with a virgin one time and I couldn't even get it in. I remember trying for quite a while with no success. Maybe it's because she wasn't entirely relaxed. I'm sure with some work we could have made it happen, but sadly the relationship did not continue so I never found out.

Anyway, the point I'm trying to make, which I don't think has been covered yet, is this: Highschool girls are not into size. In fact, a smaller penis is much easier to work with for a highschool / college aged girl. But as women become more mature, I think a larger penis becomes more of a novelty. It can give a woman that stretched out feeling that she used to get when she was younger. Generally speaking, I think that women who are into a larger size have been around the block a few times and are looking for an extra sensation.

I too am guilty of penis envy, however, I don't let it bother me. I am 48 yrs old and have been with MANY women around the world. I've never had a woman refuse me or embarrass me with remarks about my 6 penis. I am madly in love with a 38 yr old bombshell and between foreplay and intercourse, she has multiple orgasms everytime. Sex is never the same twice in a row...we mix it up alot...to include using toys. She loves me and I love her and that is all that matters. Let's get over it guys and please your woman no matter what it takes...she deserves it!

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