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       It is possible for a predominately heterosexual male to develop homosexual feelings. Often, this happens because there is a lack of platonic friendship in common with other male peers. How much friendship and acceptance one needs depends on each particular person.

       I have always been the type to need one or two very close male friends in my life who I see as almost  "brothers." They are the ones who enable me to develop my gender identity. Some other guys may find acceptance and identity through sports teams/hobby groups or other large organizations (as I did at various points in my life). I have found that a cause of the heterosexual preference is acceptance from people in the same gender and assimilation to that group at critical stages of psychological-sexual development.

       These "critical stages" normally occur before puberty but can be influenced quite a bit during and after adolescence. Everyone has a different level of acceptance and assimilation to that needs to be reached with same-gender friends. Some need a little some need a lot. Some may never find enough acceptance to satisfy them. It all depends on the individual. I have yet to meet one male that did not need some form of acceptance from his gender. Same gender friends do serve some purpose and fulfill some kind of need, otherwise heterosexual males wouldn't have male friends at all.

       I suppose it is possible to make up for "lost time" by acquiring new same-gender friends but I think that this also would depend on the individual's needs. When I was deprived of male friends due to change in schools or location, I noticed some homosexual feelings getting more frequent (in my case, thinking about mutual masturbation more often). I also felt arousal and anxiety around other attractive guys during these times. These feelings were not only more frequent but I worried about them more than when I had a platonic social network of other guys. Then, when I made some close male friends and spent time with them often, these feelings seemed to subside quite a bit. They seemed to go away naturally yet they never entirely disappeared forever.

       I must take a moment to point out that homosexual feelings do not necessarily lead to homosexual actions. Often they don't. The majority of people have had a fantasy about the same sex at some point in their life but few act out on these feelings regularly.

       When I was lonely and deprived again for a period of months or years, they came back strong. I can't can't say that all homosexuality comes from lack of supportive and accepting male friends. Homosexuality is not entirely caused because a guy didn't have enough male friends. But I can say that heterosexuals may acquire homosexual feelings for this reason. It's also safe to say that some homosexuals end up with a homosexual preference due to the cause listed above. Unfortunately, other genetic and environmental issues play a part in everyone's sexuality. It's difficult to say how much of which cause is enough to create a homosexual or heterosexual lifestyle. However, we can say that, at the very least that the three factors of: genetics, environment, and peer acceptance definitely play a role in sexuality development overall. There may be more influential factors still undiscovered or yet to be fully proven.

     I was surprised to find out that this is not the only source that speaks about this phenomenon. The following article, found on the Internet, mentions the same idea of the need for a "same-sex-acceptance":
Homosexual Orientation: Can It Be Changed?

SEXUALITY: Undecided
SEX: Male
TITLE: Glenn

I have always thought I was straight but now I wonder. For the last two months, I have shared the same showering and change room facilities as some freshman athletes. The sight of those hard young bodies showering gets me aroused like never before. The thought of getting down on all fours in the shower and taking one hard body deep and hard from behind and taking another one up front deep in my mouth is almost more than I can handle. I just hope someday I can find two guys to give this to me.

SEXUALITY: Straight
SEX: Male
TITLE: Nate

I have had fantasies about guys for the past 8 years, since I was 11. I consider myself to be straight and have fantasies about women more often than about men. When I do have fantasies about other men it usually includes that man having sex with a woman not another man. I think I just have a lack of male friends, but I'm working on that. (Being a full time student doesn't help.)----------

I have been teased my whole life by my male peers, and the constant rejection by my peers has been terrible over the years. Not until college have I experienced acceptance from my male peers. I have been through a lot in my life, and I have always been much more mature than other guys my age that it was hard to mix or fit it. Basically I just stopped trying to have male friends in high school. Now I have more connections with my peers and realize that being a man isn't always about being the macho man that is portrayed by the countless celebrity figures out there. And I have realized that being interested in the Arts and Humanities doesn't make me feminine or gay. It's just taken a while for me to figure it out.

SEXUALITY: Other
SEX: Male
TITLE: Goat

I would not consider myself gay, but I've only been with a girl once. I have very difficult relationships with woman, I'm afraid of going too fast, and never make the first move. With men, it's so much easier. I feel a lot more comfortable, and I believe it is because my friends are mostly male. I know what pleases a man, and that helps a lot.

SEXUALITY:
SEX:
TITLE: Anonymous

I have mostly fantasies about chicks. I like to think about shoving my dick into a hot, wet pussy. However, once in a while I think about doing that same thing, but with a dick being shoved in my ass at the same time my dick is in the chick's pussy. I tighten up my muscles in my ass and masturbate from both ends. Then, sometimes I get grossed out thinking about things like that. I don't know what to do. I'm a Christian, so obviously homosexuality is very unacceptable to my family. But I hate that. I think we should be able to do whatever gives us pleasure. I fantasize about f******g my children too, but have never considerd actually doing it. I'm just very confused.

SEXUALITY: Undecided
SEX: Male
TITLE: Straight or gay

It took me until grad school to admit I had gay desires. Most of my sex has been with women, but I don't think there is anything wrong with enjoying the sight of a good looking male body, or wondering what it would be like to have sex with another male. While in grad school, I met guys who were openly gay and they were not feminine. I'm 31 years old now, I still have gay friends, and I think it is normal to think about gender issues when that is the case. I date women, I have sex with women, but I've also experimented with gay sex, too. It feels good when I do it, even though for me it cannot replace sex with a woman. I think we should all admit we can have multiple ways of feeling about things, including sex.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
SEX: Male
TITLE: Scott

I am a straight male that has had gay feelings. I was 10 when my brother made me suck him. I have always been the odd one out. Almost every male that would be my friend wanted sex. I for the longest time thought that was the way it had to be. I love women. I am married and love sex with my wife. Sometimes I feel weird having sex with her. I still have a hard time making male friends. The males I am friends with for a long time with out having sex has helped me realize what I really wanted was male acceptance and not sex. When I have those fantasies about men I just remember all I want is friends.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
SEX: Male
TITLE: Role Reversal

I am a straight male. I have been married for fifteen years and have two children. I have always had fantasies about having sex with a man. About a year ago, I purchased a porn video that included segments of male on male gay sex. One night, before my wife came to bed, I was lying across our bed naked watching this video. My wife had told me before that she did not enjoy watching porn but when she saw two men having sex, she admitted it turned her on. She saw I had a hard on and asked me if I was enjoying watching it and I told her that it was interesting. She said that it must be turning you on since your penis is hard. I said I was enjoying it. She got undressed and she laid down beside me. As we were watching the gay porn together, she started rubbing my ass. She asked me if I had ever thought about doing what they were doing in the video with another man. I had to admit that I had. She retrieved a vibrator from her nightstand. This is one that I had use on her many times before. She said that she thought I would enjoy a big penis in my ass. The vibrator was about eight inches long and about two inches in diameter in the shape of a penis with veins and all. My wife really enjoys it when I use it on her. She was suggesting that she use it on me. I was shocked at what she was suggesting but exited about the prospect of that vibrator being inside my ass. I got on my knees and put my ass up in front of her. She put lube on her fingers and started rubbing my anus. I was in heaven. She had never done that before. She then asked if I was ready for the vibrator and I said yes, almost begging for it. She proceeded to insert it slowly. It hurt some but she was gental. The head passed through my opening then the rest slid right in. Oh my gosh! It felt so good. She then turned on the vibrator on high. I had never felt such a sensation. The gay porn was still on the t.v. with a guy behind another humping him. My wife was sliding the vibrator in and out of my anus in sync with the guy on the video. It seemed as though that guy was screwing me. It felt sooooo good. She then reached around and started jacking my rock hard penis. It didn't take very long to make me blow my load. As I was cumming, she shoved the vibrator up my ass as far as it would go. I felt my anal muscles tighten as I sprayed my load all over the bed. She pulled the vibrator out and I began to screw her. Her vagina was dripping wet. I could tell she had really enjoyed using the vibrator on me. I blew another load in her. What I night I had but that wasn't the end of our experimenting. About a week had passed and we were getting ready to go to bed. She went upstairs first and I followed about ten minutes later. When I entered the bedroom, my wife had the gay porn on the t.v. and she was lying in bed covered with a sheet. She asked me if I was ready for more and, of course, I said sure. She then removed her sheet and I saw that she was wearing a strap-on dildo. I asked her where she got it and she said she ordered it online and that it had just arrived today. I was shocked at the size because it was about nine inches long and about 2 1/2 inches in diameter. She said it was her turn to be the man. I got down on my knees in front of her and she mounted me from behind. Once she had me penetrated, she began to screw me in a rythmic motion. It was great! She screwed me like the man in the video and I was enjoying every minute of it. We did it in several positions including me on top riding her. The longer we did it, the better it felt. After about a half an hour, I actually came without any stimulation to my penis. I was surprised that could happen but it felt amazing. We have reversed roles many times since and we both enjoy it very much. I felt guilty at first because it made me feel so good but my wife said as long as I like it, what does it matter. If it feels good, just do it. I love my wife.

SEXUALITY: Undecided
SEX: Male
TITLE: whoknows

I havent had sex yet, but masturbating really turns me on. One time when I was all alone, I decided to insert a finger into my anus, because the thought of being inserted by another guy really turns me on, even though im attracted to women. Now I found that when im horny my anus seems like it needs to be penetrated. I want to know what it feels like to have a penis or dildo inside me, but im only 16 and not old enough to buy a dildo and too embarrassed to ask one of my friends if hes gaso fingers will have to do for now I guess but man im aching to be screwed.

SEXUALITY: Straight
SEX: Male
TITLE: big darlin'

have been married 37 years, love jacking off. used to jack off with my brother and some of my buddies. this was in teens. Have jacked off continuously during my married years. I will not stop. Enjoy it immensely. My wife is ill and I am afraid of hurting her when having sex, so stopped our sex acts two years ago. This is fine with me, I just think this is a guy thing, and we ALL do it. Love jackin my cock. Will take my juice at times. Have sex wtih the 'right' guy occasionally. love suckin a nice young married guy and will be a bottom for the right guy. Love shootin the juice. Love holding my dick in my hand.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
SEX: Male
TITLE: Hungry

I think of myself as heterosexual, but increasingly, I hate to admit I am aroused by the idea of sex with another male. I had a couple homosexual experiences (experimentation really), many years ago. They weigh heavily on my mind lately, especially one with a fellow named Donald. I don't think in terms of having a 'relationship' with a male, but I could defintely do sex with Donald. A long time ago, Donald and I mutually masturbated and he wanted to continue the relationship but I said no (shame). However, Donald had a wonderful, uncut penis and large, smooth (no hair) balls. I think about that penis frequently and If I had the chance and the right opportunity, I would be thrilled to put those balls on my chin and suck that big dick until it went dry. I think he would do the same for me.Donald is probably the only person that I can think of doing that with. I haven't seen him in many, many years. I day dream about about his dick and balls and his thick black public hair a lot. I don't care about a "relationship" with him in the conventional sense, but I sure would like to have a mutual sucking arrangement with him or another close friend that I could really trust. I could not bear to be betrayed or outted.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
SEX: Male
TITLE: Slick 1

While I was living with my ex girlfriend we began to share sex fantasies during our lovemaking sessions. During our sessions one night, I began to suck her long fingers one by one. She became extra excited and asked me if I really liked sucking these dicks. From there we began to share more fantasies about me watching her getting f******d by another guy and then I was to lick her until she was clean. After that she wanted me to watch her get f*****d by Black guys and then she wanted me suck these guys. It was exciting for a while ,but we eventually split.So I have really thought about giving a guy a blowjob.

SEXUALITY: Undecided
GENDER: Male
TITLE: pete

I have always thought of myself as straight, but the last few months I find myself getting turned on by men. As I watch men I catch myself undressing them with my eyes. Now when I am alone as I have been this week, I get naked and stay that way all day looking at this web site and jacking to vison of men rather than, women. I have been naked for the last four day and have masturbated nearly the full time, all I can think of is about penises I would like to find some man to masturbate with and suck each other.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Sucking a young cock

I'm middle-aged, married and have always considered myself straight. I have masturbated throughout my life as well as having regular heterosexual sex. But lately I have become obsessed with the desire to suck a prick. I went to a pornographic cinema and sucked a man's prick in the dark, but I really want to suck a young prick. I've downloaded lots of pictures of young cumming pricks and wank to them imagining them in my mouth. Perhaps one day I'll find a willing young prick, but for the time being it looks as if I'll have to put up with older ones's and photos. C'est la vie!

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: I am a student that lives in the Pennsylvaina aera. I've been raised by older women my whole life so sex was a strange an foreign subject to me as I grew up (still is) I've had feelings for both women and men sice I was little. It really turned sexual about the 5th or 6th grade. I had a self awakening because of the recent sexual renosaunce in the media and American culture. Its now pseudo-acceptable to be undecided in one's sexuality and to cross the line of gender, almost fashionable in some cases. So becuase of this I have explored my feelings a little more and found I feel very strongly toward another man.

Dan (generic enough of a name to keep his identiy a secret) He's incredible. Way out of my league, I know this but I still think about him a lot. I have pictures of him from a dance we both went to, I keep them with my other pictures and look at them every once in a while to remind myself of my goal, lol. I make sure I walk in a path that will cross his in the halway when Im going to class. I try to make eye contact. I just want him to notice me and maybe catch the hint im intersted and get some kind of responce. Tell me your bi, tell me your straight, tell me, your intersted, tell me to go to hell, something so I can either move on or persue this. In short, Dan has changed my view on sexuality. I see no lines of separation between men and women. We both are sexual creatures. We both have disires. Why limit something as wild, natural, and wonderful as sex?

SEXUALITY: Undecided
GENDER: Male
TITLE: someone clueless

when i was 15 i had my first gay expierince im not saying im gay but i have often thought about sex with another man. I guess i was just desperate for affection but it really interested me for a long time. So one night i was bored and wanted to play poker with a friend, so i called over one of my friends George (he was one of my better friends at the time). When he got to my house we talked for a little and then we started to play Poker. Little did i know he brouhgt of some guy on girl pornos. That really turned us on, and when i was low on chips George proposed that i should suck him to earn some chips back. i was in the mood thanks to the porn so when i lost the rest of my chips he layed out on the couch (with the porn still running) he said "whenever you are ready." that was enough for me he didnt have to say another word i went right in and sucked him dry it was one of the greatest experiences i have ever had with a man. Later that night i asked what i had to do. he said again to suck him (just between u and me i purposely lost the next hand so i could do it again.) It was a great night.

SEXUALITY: Undecided
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Guys with long hair

In high school, in my grade, there was this really hot guy who i always looked at as someone i'd love to do something with, in fact, just even mutual masturbation with. But he's the jock, who always gets the girl he wants. The thing that turned me on most about him was his long dark brownish hair. He grew it out in ninth grade and it's just so long and straight and looks so smooth and silky. We became good friends, but never got anywhere cause i didnt have the guts to ask him to do anything. I had always dreamed of just having sex with him, and instead of cumming in his ass, I'd pull out and either cum all over his chest and then lick it up or have him do this to me. that makes me even more horny. I've also always wanted to just cum all over and in his sexy hair, and use the cum as gel. Just imagining me running my hands through that hair makes me almost burst in my pants. Or even just a blowjob would be amazing. But ever since this fantasy, I've started looking through gay porn sites to find videos of guys with long hair. It just turns me on so much. If you could see this guy in my school, you'd probably bust too.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: joe

I am 57 years old. I have had this issue of wondering if I could be queer, I use that instead of the political term "gay", as I think it is a better fit. I was married for 15 years and have been divorced for several years without a signficant relationship. When I was married I would look at queer porn. I enjoyed the mystery of seeing naked men with erections. In some way I wish I could have been them.Over the years my desire has been increasing. My desire seems to stem from my basic insecurity as a man. I have had career problems in that I have not been successful.I think this is fertile ground for this growing interest. I have journalled about my fantasies, but have never acted out with another man. I once was at a nude beach and was approached by a man, but I told him "no". When I go to the park I am aroused by the women runners, but not the men. My queerness is all in my head. I am aroused by queer porn, but not straight. I know it's probably a matter of time before I drop my inhibitions and act out my imagination. There seems to be a sense of relief knowing there is a place that I can share my thoughts and emotions regarding my sexuality. I have many male friends, some of whom are queer, and I enjoy these non-sexual friendships. But I do not feel comfortable talking about this. I don't find any of them attractive physically. I want to have anonymous sex in various places. I would like to have an intimate relationship with a woman, but I would like to act out sexually with men.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Recently Confused

I am a straight 31 year old male who has never been with a another guy for sex. However, when I was about 21 my boss came on to me after work one evening and offered me oral sex. I didn't accept his invitation but found myself thinking more and more about it afterwards and often masturbating to the thought of how it would have been. It has now been almost 10 years since I was first propositioned like that but at least 50% of my fantasies since then have been about both recieving and sometimes even giving oral sex to guys. I often masturbate to gay porn sites but do not get turned on by the anal sex scenes or the bodies of the guys in pictures or on the street. I have found though that masturbating to gay oral sex usually makes me come harder and faster than straight porn. I have never found myself to be attracted to any one man in particular but have considered doing internet sex with an anomynous partner if I could find one. I have never been 100% sure about what I would do today if I were to be propositioned for oral sex with a guy again like I had been before but would like to know what your advice or thoughts about all of this would be.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Enjoy Men

I am a striaght but soemwhat confused man. I am currently in a relastionship with a women but cannot stop thinking of men. I have been with a couple of guys in the past and really enjoyed it. My girl loves the thought of me being with another guy and loves to here my past experiences. I've been with her for 3 years and it's great but I don't enjoy having sex with her unless we are watching gay porn and she is wearing a strap-on. I guess I'm lucky since she says she can only get off if she is pounding my ass. I would really enjoy being with a man again. There's nothing like the real thing.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Frank

When I was about 10 yrs old. My cousin used to make me stroke his erect penis and play with his testicles. He was about 14 yrs old at the time. I've always been fascinated with women, I love their taste, their smell etc.. But I do confess I love looking at penises. I don't know why? I never have the intention of committing a gay sexual act, but I would seriously think if I was in a threesome I would really like to perform mutual masturbation or pull him off. I just love the feel of a penis in my hand. Sometimes I meet guys and I would seriously let them touch my penis if they would show me theirs. I would really love to see them in the flesh apart from my own all the time. I don't know if that is gay feelings or if all Hetrosexual men feel the same.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Anonymous

I love looking at nude men, And i think about having hot hard sex with them. I picture myself as a bottom, wanting to please my man. Kissing and licking him all over, sucking his beautiful cock. Getting him ready to bang me in whatever position he desires. Licking and kissing his long hard shaft, sucking the head and taking it deep in my mouth, Having him tug at me ready to plunge it in me , And taking me deep, Screwing me for all he is worth. I will take his pounding, he could do it hard and fast, or nice slow strokes, Letting his orgasm work up from the bottom of his sweet balls, And he can come in only 2 places, my mouth or ass . He can just grab my hair and force his cock in my mouth, making me suck out his hot sperm, or he could just keep pounding me and hold his huge hard cock deep in me as he spurt his nuts dry. I would just worship my man and keep him satisfied everyday.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Feelings

I’m a married man with grown children. Lately I have been having fantasies about sucking a man’s cock. I did it once with a friend a long time ago and although I didn’t admit it at the time, I really enjoyed it. I haven’t done anything since but I’m really considering trying it again. I’ve spent some time looking through various forums and noticed a lot of older married guys with similar desires. I’m wondering how common this is among older married males.

SEXUALITY: In-Between
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Harold

Although I am a virgin, I have always had sexual fantasies about both women and men. Some periods of my life I have been more prodominatley attracted to women, then it shifted to men, then back to women and so on. I do not have enough sexual expirence to label myself, and I probably will not ever label myself. I have only wanted to expirent sexually with one man, but never did due to a large age gap, and social restrictions. I believe it was because we were close friends who had a very honost and caring relationship that led to mutual sexual feelings. but he is a married father and much older then so it is not so simple to just sexually explore together. I also lost my father at a young age and wonder if that has something to do with my same sex attraction.I have only expiremented with women my age and I like what I have expirenced, but I believe I would enjoy sexual expirementation with a fellow I trust. who knows why I feel the way I do... but I do and I believe I should be able to be who I am without being labeled gay, or bi or anything.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER:
TITLE: neddie

When I was a young boy I used to be sexualy attracted to other boys but apart from masturbating with my best friend never had sex with anyone. However in my fifties I found that I was sexually attracted to my staight brother inlaw he is tall and slim and sometimes wears tiny tight shorts that clearly showed the outline of his penis. I began to imagine him naked and fantasise having sex with him. Eventualy I persaded him to let me give him a massage, he insisted on keeping his underwear on. During the massage he became obveusly aroused and did not object when I took his briefs off. He was everything I dreamed of. I began to masturbate him, then for the first time I took a penis in my mouth and too my suprise found that I enjoyed sucking it. He soon told me he was ready to come to my even greater suprise I let him come in my mouth, I really loved the experience. I used the massage oil to lube my penis the I lifted his legs and pushed my penis into him, he was very tight but I soon had my six inches completly in, he wrapped his lovely long legs around me and we had intercourse. Since then I have had sex with two other guys and find it to be more enjoyable than sex with a woman.

SEXUALITY: Celibate
GENDER: Male
TITLE: lost and confuosed

I have started jerking off around my freshman year in high school after this chick sent me a letter asking me to jerk off with her. I was scared and lied to her about me having a girlfriend. I used to use porno to jerk off but I was soon converted to gay porn. I'm a christian and try not to go into the ways of lust, but I did the gay porn thing all the time. Now...being in college I have these feelings that arise sometimes but not all the times. I know gay guys, but I don't try to get with them. Whenever I jerk off, i have this feeling that I need to be sucked and something stuck up my ass! I just get horny and then these things come up and I feel like I wanna get fucked by anyone. I feel confused and lost what should I do?!

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER:
TITLE: Jim

Straight Men..hummmm..are there really 100% st8 men in this world. The true answer I believe is with in ones on comfort level with their sexual desires. Most of the world spends more time avoiding sex issues. Parnets have the "birds & bees " conversations with their children and then we are off to determine the rest. Sex was never talked about in our southern home, and only when I grew up to hang out with the men did I start to even learn what the words meant. etting a porn book and some lube was the main lession on sexual education. I have two boys now in their teens and we talk about sex all the time. I want them to understand the feelings and emotions associated with sex, and know that one of my son's is gay. My other one has a very strong sexual desire and at 17 has a very safe sexual masturbating habit. I think this freedom to speak inthe house will educate the guys what is safe, expected and will make them understand their own personal sexual desires. I am bisexual and now have a male soulmate. We do not have sex in front of the guys, but are very open to nudity and we both sleep nude. I noticed yesterday that my 17 year old was now sleeping nude and walking around the house in his underwear or naked. I made him put some cloths on the other morning to make sure he understood nudity if great, but need to know the right time and place. I have noticed in just a few months the increased level in their confidence, presentation and overall growth as humans and men. That I am very proud of. Parnets who let others do their teaching and find themselves asking " what went wrong" need to lession and talk with their children. We are the ones to make sure that they become the very best they can be. My 15 year had a conversation with me about his strong feelings for other guys. He wanted to know if this meant he was gay or was he just growing up? Well I don't know that answer, and only time will provide him with that answer. I did however tell him that his feelings were okay. That I had the very same feelings growing up and now understand them. He has had mutual masturbation with a couple of his friends. I always listen to his experience and support and let him know what is safe and those things maybe he needs to watch out for. Others call me a liberal, well maybe I am but I want to be the father I wish I had. The boys are turning out to be great guys. It must be working.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: bicourious

I am a 36 yr old good looking guy happliy married with 2 children.I have been masterbating sinc the sixth grade. The last couple of years I have been think about haveing sex with another man.(i have someone in mind) Is what got me courious was one night my wife and i had a threesome with a buddy of mine.She was giving him a blowjob and the sight of seeing his penis that made me want to try it. I masterbate to that thought alot. But Iam arffraid to approace him.

I am 43 yrs old, short for my age, actually not bad looking, but have a ego problem ) my mom was not married when I was born, people called me bastard for good reason I suppose. I have always had 'little man' syndrome. I think I can be macho, but resort to jerking off with a buddy who is truly interested in butt fucking me. I show him affection with the usual man to man slap on the back stuff, but I feel there is a strong bond that he wants to do more with me. If I am with him, I would develop a realtionship that would require him to fuck me and to have me suck him. He is very good looking, long cock and would make a great lover. Problem is that I want to maintain my relationship with trampy type women I find at bars. I have had group sex with women and have been turned on by watching men sucking other men. I wonder what will happen to me. I want to make something of myself, but I am reclusive and go nude indoors even on the coldest days. My friends come to my house and find me naked all the time. is there something terribly wrong with me?

I have often found that the concept of having sex with another man is very arousing to me, even though I consider myself straight. I'm still a virgin at 16, which is the way i want it to be, but i feel increasingly drawn to both women and men; I guess I'm really just being drawn closer to sex. I think that all men and women go through a period of sexual indecisiveness and that it is just in how we handle those feelings that we determine who we are based on our own standards. Me, for instance, used to be terrified at the thought that I was jacking off to the thought of sucking some of my best friends. Now I insert objects into my anus when I feel like ejaculating based on these homosexual fantasies. The difference is that now I feel that I am okay with being bisexual in ym thoughts as it's made me better understand the women's stand point during sex. Of course, I find penetration to be delightful whether its me doing or receiving it. I'd truly like to have sex with my friend or atleast allow me to experiment on him with giving him a hand or blowjob or allowing him to penetrate me just so I can judge whether or not I am actually homosexual or not, as sometimes fantasies are just that. My only problem now is finding another male who is as nonchalant about experimentation as I am, but only time is a factor there I suppose. As far as I see it, homosexuality has no downside except for STD's which is a risk in all forms of sex anyway and also the societal stigmas which any sensible person can see to be founded on rather outdated views on how we should all live our lives

I suspect that we're all capable of getting aroused by any sign of arousal-be it a hard penis, wet vagina or stiff nipples. I believe horniness is essentially neutral. Maybe so-called gay feelings are perhaps a sort of awareness of this. I'd bet there ain't a guy out there who doesn't identify with another guy's hard dick-and doesn't at least get a little tingle in his own.

Sex is sex. Why limit yourself? We have these bodies that can give and receive pleasure in many ways-and places.

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im married with two kids now. for so many years i am trying to find my real self. im always confused of my sexuality.im so much attracted to male than female. i had a sexual experience with my classmate in high school.it continues to college and in the early years when we both got s job.it ended when he got married and i also got married. but the urge of having sex with other men intensified. my wife and I had a great sex together, i enjoyed every bit of it. but i still want to have sex with guys especially good looking guys, just like me. i promise to do everything if ever i will meet the guy. but im still afraid about Gods judgement and my family.

Now in my early 60's and quite a bit of experience with both males and females I think I have figured a few thing out (maybe). I think we are all sexual beings with attractions one way or the other for a few. The large majority can (and often do)go either way. I enjoyed sucking a mans penis from the first time I tried it as a boy beginning to enter puberty. I was also strong attracted to girls at that age, though in my day they were almost totally unavailable. As I got older they became more available, and I enjoyed sex with the ladies as much as I did with men. I came to love oral sex (doing it to a partner)and I still do. Throught the years I have noticed that men, given the opportunity to a totally anonomous blow job, with no reciprocation or strings of any kind will allow another man to orally pleasure him. I have experienced this over and over. Today, I see about 6 to 8 men, all married. Their wives either won't give them head, don't like to or some other reason they come up with. They will call me, come by my home during the day (I'm self employed and work at home)and I will orally service them any way they like. They do not reciprocate, they just enjoy a first class blowjob and in some cases a porn video (straight) with it. This may sound a little to one way with some, but I truly love it. I have my oral needs with a man taken care of several times per week and they get what they desire. No one ever meets. I am the only common denominator. I have a lady friend I see for dinner on the weekend and often there is a chance to satisfiy my need for a woman and hers for a man. She is aware of my bisexuality and seems at times to be excited about hearing about some of it during sex. Am I weird? Are the people I see? I don't think so. I think we are all satisfying our particular needs in a manner that works for all of us. Bisexuality works on a sliding scale I believe. There are times when any of us can feel more hetero and then a bit later more homo. In some ways it may be the more normal than the strictly all male partners or all female partners. Just the humble opinion of a happy practicing bisexual man.

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Never knew whether I was gay or straight or bisexual or just unique. I've read everything I could find, including clinical texts. I even entered therapy the gain some clarity but was told my sexuality is my own and not to let others persuade me to do things I did not want. Here it is: As a kid, continually had (non-erotic) crushes on beautiful women. I identified myself as male, was aggressive and engaged in rough play.

I fantasized about becoming a superman type and would get a hard-on when fighting and overpowering neighborhood kids. When I would pin a kid to submission I felt an excitement through my crotch, a sensation of power and superiority along with heightened aggressive urges. From my dick to my ass I felt like a man, all grown-up and powerful like the brutes I saw on TV. But it felt no more loving or erotic than the physical sensations sometimes felt when mounting a saddle. I attributed the pleasure to be a residual product from friction and pressure against the sensitive areas of my developing manhood and imagined all men felt this but just didn't talk about it.

During teen-age years when easily stimulated by anything, I very much enjoyed sexual relations and loving relationships w/ teen-age girls. However, as my body developed I felt excited and aroused by its very transformation. My frame grew tall and broad and with a defined muscle mass. I could jack-off just from feeling powerful and masculine in form. Women, and even some men were suddenly flirting with me. Some men even instigated fights just so I would overpower and dominate them with physical contact.

I am ashamed to admit there were times I got off bullying them. Being large with a powerful build made me feel enthusiastcally masculine and it felt so satisfying when I exercised this power. But it especially felt good, as it did as a kid, when beating-up another man, and the more of a challenge he was, the more rewarding it felt. It fed my ego and made me feel good at the very source and core of my manhood, in particular, in the root of my dick at the base of my ass.

At that time I concluded I was anal-sadistic and homosexual. Making love to women became less satisfying, especially since many woman at that time (1970's) were still passive, pretending to just go along with a sexual act. Most would just lay there like wet blankets and never dream of actively stimulating the guy on top. As good as the extended part of my penis felt moving against her vaginal walls, my scrotum and perineum urged for attention. Since these parts were to the rear it suggested a desire for anal stimulation, something at that time attributed exclusively to homosexuals. So in college I experimented but homosexual encounters were always a disaster. Although I felt no inclination towards oral or anal sex, I none-the-less tried it and found I hated it. I felt no tenderness towards other men and lacked desire for the kind of the intimacy I shared with women. The erotic stimulation I felt towards my buttocks did not extend within my rectum. Then I read that men, regardless of orientation, derive pleasure from direct stimulation of the prostate. I tried that too, at best, felt no pain in the attempt, however, still no pleasure within the anal canal. And unlike any other man I knew, I didn't even like the sensation of getting head. Probably because I wasn't the one controlling the stimulation. The pressure wasn't right, it was irritatingly hot with a non- lubricating kind of wetness. There were instances of pleasure, but unsustained, along with unpleasant textures and rawness and instances of pain from accidental clashes against teeth.

What makes sex enjoyable for me is to be in control of the timing and dosing of pleasure. ALthough I like the role as dominant top, with women the pleasure is generated by feeling power over her, but in a generous sense, the power to please her, and feel her respond pleasurably as my penis is massaged by the friction of deep thrusts. Ideally she would worship me for the pleasure my body provides and she would show it with pelvic motions and caressing hands, along with massaging my scrotum and the part of my perineum just below the cleft of my ass, even though it doesn't serve her needs directly. I know it's unfair, and now socially incorrect to expect a woman to be soft, sweet and subservient, but that's my perversion. In the case of sex with men, even while many confirmed heterosexuals can get-off impaling the orifices of other men, I will go limp. Similar to a dominatrix? Perverted pervert? The satisfaction I can derive from contact with men seems similar to a UFC fighter- overpowering a challenge and mounting him in submission. However, I derive an orgasm-like charge along with the sensation of victorious superiority. Physically, I derive pleasure in the very part of my body used against him. By fighting him directly with the very core of my manhood, the pressure from forcibly exerting every part of my penis, including the scrotum and perineum, massages the whole thing to orgasm.

Except for a few exclusively homosexual websites devoted to physical combat and frottage, I have not found any forums or writings defining or explaining this combo of sexuality. Any comments, thoughts or leads are most welcome. Thanks for listening.

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I've been a raging hetersexual all my life. But, I can remember as far back, being 11 yrs. old & being interested in women's breasts. I've always loved them, and I get extremely aroused looking at them. I can't look at Playboy & not masturbate! I get more turned on, by looking at beautiful/nude women than I do men. I've had one sexual experience with a woman, who I did not find attractive and I couldn't do anything to her. I let her do what ever she wanted with me, and it was erotic. I fantasize about licking a woman's pussy, and sucking her tits, all the time, My husband & I have discussed a threesome, but I don't think we'll ever do that. I couldn't share him with anyone. I do on the other hand, wish that I could fulfill my desires with another woman, without him. Am I a bisexual? Or, is this just a fantasy thing for me? It's kinda weird to me, and I don't know what to do.

well sexuality is a werid thing. i know i've been straight as a kid. i always thought girls were beautiful, but i think i also had a curiosity about males. i did not think they were goodlooking i just wanted to experiment with them and there bodies. it was more of a comperison thing.NOW im 18 i treat girls as sacred beings they are beautiful and i fell romance torward them, yet somehow i've developed this sense of forbidiness with sexual things with them. i think about it, but i have yet to go past touching, im not sure if im afraid but i think it's just that i feel with a girl physical sexual activity means more. With a guy i feel mutual, i understand what pleases a guy. i've experimented with a few guys and i like mutual masterbation and mabye a bit of sucking, i actually tried anal it was unexciting and i totally regret it( i was a top) i just did'nt like it, i did not really want it either. but anyways i have a bond with guys its mutual friendship and respect but not love just attraction...viva heteroflexibles!

i didn't think there were this many married men who had homosexual feelings. it's probably normal. we're all human beings after all and if we can appreciate beauty in a vedgetable then we can proabbly appreciate beauty in the same sex and get turned on

I am 40 and married and kids grown and gone. My best bud, who is married and 25, masturbate each other now and then because we like each other real well. We give each other powerful orgasms. We do this for bonding purposes and we are happy jacking off each other.

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Last night I was using a vibrator on my wife (ass) whilst having sex.I could feel it and made it heard that this gave me pleasure.She took it out of her ass and (cleaned it 1st) started to tickle my balls with it.She knew I was enjoying this but then I told her it was going to make my balls sore without lube so she lubed it up.

THEN,,,,,WOW !!!

SHE SHOVED IT IN MY ASS !!!!! It only went in a little of the way but the more I got excited,the more she put it in !!

I've always considered myself straight (no reason before not to?) and I know this is just a way of sexual exploration/experimentation,but,,,I want it to happen again,,and again,,just keep it comin baby !!!

I have never had sex with a man and probably never will, as I am happily married. I don't find guys attractive. Nothing about them-- their shapes, their skin, their smell, whatever--interests me. I'm into women, period. BUT...when I was about twenty-five, I once briefly met a guy about five years younger who attracted me. He was beautiful in a masculine but kind of boyish way...maybe 5'9, tan, long and almost curly hair, slim with moderate pectoral development, little body hair, and handsome. I was on the beach with my then- girlfriend and I couldn't help but fantasize about a threesome. I still think about it from time to time when I'm masturbating.

I see us having a few drinks in a room near the beach, showering off the sand and sea salt, and then my girlfriend sucking both of our cocks. Then she dares him to suck mine, which he does, and then they share, one licking my balls while the other sucks my hard cock. Then I suck his cock in such a way as to give my girlfriend an education in fellatio...I go wild licking and sucking and deep throating this handsome, dark young man's lovely penis. My girlfriend starts touching my bottom, first with her hands and then with her mouth, kissing and biting my bottom and then licking my anus. She licks my balls from behind also and starts sticking her finger in my hole. (In reality, this is about my favorite thing . . . my best lovers, including my wife, have been into my ass and have pleased me this way).

Pretty soon she gets some lubricant and starts opening my anus with two fingers and then three. I start to become really horny, especially as she tells me what a hot ass I have and how sexy I look with this guy's big cock in my mouth and how much I'm going to love being fucked in the ass like my tight asshole is a pussy. And that's exactly what happens. My girlfriend says I'm ready, that my anus is relaxed, so I turn around to offer my virgin ass to this younger man, who has had sex with girls, even anal sex, but not with a man. I feel afraid, looking back at that big cock, but my girlfriend encourages me and gives me soul kisses. He guides his erect penis to my poor little hole, and to show my willingness I arch my back and stick my ass up higher, while reaching back to spread my ass cheeks.

Then it happens. He presses the tip of his penis to the ring of my anus, and presses. It resists at first, but then gives with an audible POP. Oh god! I say over and over, as he slides the shaft deep inside, right to the hilt. For the first time, I have a man inside me. I am on the receiving end of homosexual anal sex. I can never take it back...I have lost a special virginity. I feel a moment of regret, and the shame that society puts on this act. But then a joyful feeling silences the voice of ignorance and doubt. I'm fucked, truly fucked! His balls slap against the back of my balls, and I start returning his thrusts with eager, hungry backward motions. My girlfriend turns to offer me her pussy and ass to eat from behind, and I take up her offer. We go at it with utter abandon, my girlfriend crying out things like, Eat me! Eat my pussy! Fuck his tight ass! while I groan, occasionally pausing from cunnilingus to cry out, Fuck me! Make me your bitch! Fuck my tight ass! We all come at the same time, screaming.

Now I'm a straight guy, and chances are I'll never see another man who interested me like this one. I am also faithful to my wife. Usually my fantasies are straight (though often with me receiving anal stimulation by a woman, who sometimes wears a strapon dildo, which has also never happened to me). But once in awhile, I indulge in this fantasy, because there is no point in being narrow-minded in the confines of my own bed when my wife is not there and I can indulge in any fantasy I want.

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Since in my early teens when a male friend and I did play around. It went from masturbating together to sucking and a few times anal. that stopped when girls became easier to come by. After I married, The thoughts of sex with a man never came to mind until a trip to an adult book store. I went into one of the movie booths and watched a movie and started to stroke. I did not notice the hole in the wall until I heard a voice and looked over at an erection poking into my booth. It scared me and I ran out. It wasn't long before I got curious and went back. This time a finger came through and i looked into the next booth. there was a man I could see from waist to his knees and he was nue and hard. he moved to the hole and rubbed his finger around the hole then put his finger in and beckoned me closer he whispered put youn cock through After a bit I did and got a great BJ. I left afer that with a lot of guilt swearing never to go back. that lasted about a week. over a period of many months I wanted to try returning the favor, but I would only stroke them. (I think i was afraid of STD's) Since then, My wife no longer has any interest in sex due to life changes and I find myself seeking out other men. I now have several regular friends I get together with when we can and, but my wife is still unaware. I'm now in my 60's and find the idea of self sucking a turn on, but thats another story.

I have had two girlfriends in the past, neither of which I found terribly attracted to. I have been jacked off by my first girlfriend and went limp, embarassingly, but have also done other sexual things. It's been so long I cannot even clearly remember if she aroused me much, or whether it was her signs of being aroused by me that turned me on. I think it's a complex thing. My second girlfriend, it was a lot the same. Since we broke up, it has been 3 or so years.

I'm 20 now, and I have been Masturbating to gay porn for a long time. Women seem to turn me on less. I've never really had many male friends, and this particular article really feels true to me in many ways. I am VERY rarely attracted to another man in public. I have gay friends that have hots for guys (celebrities for instance) I don't even think are very attractive. Heck, even anal sex somewhat turns me off, yet after experimenting I can understand just how stimulating it really is.

The thing is, I am ALMOST convinced I am gay, except there are certain things that do not add up. For one, I still appreciate the female form, and love it, although I am not really stimulated by it sexually through porn. Only men. Women in porn don't do much for me. Yet somehow, something emotionally inside of me tells me that if I develop a deep relationship with another woman, I can still have sexual feelings for her. I think the process of watching someone get turned on is what also turns me on. For some reason I cannot picture myself getting into a serious relationship with a man. It seems entirely sexual. I do not care about much except the body itself, turned on. I do not get turned on by other men in the showers, thinking about sex with my roommate seriously grosses me out.

I have a feeling that the porn itself has strengthened a sort of gay sexual feeling I had before, and made it overpowering. I sometimes feel that I can never really know how I feel for sure until I develop a relationship with someone and see how it goes.

Also, I am not certain this is something I developed. I am not convinced that I am going through a natural phase for a heterosexual, and I'm not convinced my feelings are due to unacceptance, either. I have a few good male friends (like my roommate, who I have no sexual feelings for whatsoever) and yet I am still having sexual conflicts.

The problem is that I am afraid to develop relationships, because I do not want to hurt anybody. I am afraid that once I realise I am not sexually attracted to them, that it will hurt their feelings. I think sex is a very important part of a relationship, and I am literally depressed thinking about getting into a relationship and hurting someone else. This is why I feel that if I ever develop a relationship, I should be honest in saying that I am undecided in my sexuality. This probably would not make me a popular choice, but I'm thinking that if there are others out there that feel just like I do, maybe I'll meet one of them. And just maybe, we can work out our feelings. Because as it is, I feel so trapped and alone. I don't have any friends I would be confortable telling about this, and it is eating me alive. I sometimes imagine myself leaving college, and living by myself, never to form a relationship again. It scares me.

I tell myself that someday I may have to gather the courage to find help, or to find others like me. Possibly with some community on my campus. Anyway... that's the two cents of a sad confused college student.

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I have been with many girls. I am married to a much younger, very pretty tall slim blonde. After a lot of talking, I convinced her to try a threesome with me and another guy. Although acting very shy, when the time came, she bought a black see-thru nightgown, and candles, and I brought home a young guy, and after casual conversation, we went to the bedroom, and I noticed her nipples very hard underneath her gown. I pulled her to me and we kissed and I pulled her gown up over her butt and motioned for the guy to touch her. She began making little moaning sounds and we went into the bedroom and I pulled her gown down over her shoulders and let it fall to the floor. We got into the bed and I told him to se if she was wet. I watched as his fingers played with her pussy and I put my cock by her mouth and she began sucking it like never before. He slid his cock in her from the back and she pushed back hard and fast taking every inch deep inside. She asked me if I woul kiss her pussy from the front and I got down and began licking her clit..very aware of the huge cock ramming in and out. He announced he was going to cum and she pulled away just enough for his cock to pull out and I felt it on my lips and had an urge to suck him off. I have never done that before, but I began sucking and he exploded in my mouth..and I came all over my wifes feet. I have always been a straight person sexually. Now I find myself loving to suck cocks.

It is so sad that men have to be ashamed of any sexual feeling. Women certainly aren't! They do whatever they want with each other, and not only don't men mind, we will generally PAY to watch! It is a strange world. Just enjoy yourself and don't worry if you are gay or not. Sex is sex and nothing says sex like a hard dick!

I am a happy married family man. When I am jerking off my fanatsy is that of a gay guy sucking my cock. I don't consider my self guy. When watching porn and I guy has a big one the only thing I think is I wish my cock was that big. or I wish I was fucking her.

A couple of times I was in a situation when a guy wanted to suck my cock and I let him. I try to avoid this because I could really get addicted to being sucked off by guys. One time I just stopped to take a wizz at a pull off. I noticed a guy in the bushes watching me pee. I could have just jumped back into my truck and took off. But the next thing I know he had my pants down around my knees. He had both hands on my ass and was pulling my pelvis, dick and all into his mouth. My dick is only 6.5, but it is striaght and cut. But the maybe 5 guys that have sucked me off always worship it. This gets me horny as hell.

I have no desire to suck a dick. I think it is an ultimate compliment for a guy to suck my dick but I could never return the favor. Does this make me gay?

I am a girl, but I have something to say to most of you; particularly the married men expressing a desire to suck prick or sharing an experience (ongoing or otherwise) in which you engaged in same-sex relations.

My friend's father recently outed himself right out of his marriage. He decided he liked men more than women (even though he knocked his wife up THREE, count 'em, THREE times), and began living a completely gay lifestyle. Before outing himself to his wife, however, he engaged in same-sex relations outside of the marriage, as well as hetero relations with his wife within the marriage. She had no idea.

When she found out, not only was SHE completely heart-broken (it's still cheating, guys), their children were a mess. My friend is fearful about entering any relationship with a man, and her brother has since been acting-out in a violent manner. The youngest son, he's only 5, hasn't been told why his daddy left, so only time will tell how he is affected.

There are two things about your behavior (or potential behavior) that need to be realized:

1. I've already said it, but I can't stress it enough: CHEATING IS CHEATING. Just because you're not having sex with woman, doesn't mean you're not cheating. Some of you call your same-sex relations friendship, acting as though giving your friend a BJ or J/O with him is as casual as watching the game together. You shouldn't cheat on your spouse, PERIOD. That's what marriage is all about: being with just one person, and only that person, both emotionally and physically, for the rest of your life (or at LEAST within the life of the marriage). And actually, though you shouldn't cheat as all, I will answer the question some of you are probably wondering: as a woman myself, I can tell you that the idea of my husband cheating on me with a man is FAR worse than him cheating on me with another woman. Maybe it's not rational to think this way, but I'd venture my self-esteem would drop immensely if I found out my husband preferred a man in bed to me. Our spouse's attraction towards us provides us with validation and affirmation that we are indeed desirable. Must you men enter a marriage knowing you like guys THAT much?

Which brings me to the 2nd issue...

2. To all of you men who say you prefer to have the romantic relationship with a woman and the physical relationship with a man: You are greedy, disgusting, bastards. It has to be said. You men want to have your cake and eat it, too. Basically, you guys determine this before you even enter the marriage. Yet, you STILL enter the marriage (KNOWING you'll STILL pursue same-sex sex while married). It's just, plain wrong. And you know what, those who you who do indulge yourselves in anal sex (not many of you seemed to have mentioned it), use a condom if you insist on doing this to your wife. Give her (and your children) at least that much respect.

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I am straight, altho I have been had a couple of times (orally) by men and always enjoyed it more than with women. I'm in my late 60's now, and the urges get stronger each day to actually find a man, preferably around my age, with the same desires - to have both oral and anal sex. I constantly look up sites like these, but to most, they consider older men to be in their 30's - nothing near what I'm interested in. The best I can find is a couple of sites (Razlak) or (Abueletes) that actually cater to my visual desires, then I can take it from there and in all ways enjoy this. I have J/O'ed many times, and a few times with other men, but never had what I would consider the ultimate pleasure, of having a hard cock in my mouth, spurting the cream, or even having one put up my rear and doing the same thing. I need some help on this, but I doubt I'll ever get the total answer.

Since I was ten years old, I had a few experiences with guys. As a teenager, I really craved girls more than guys, but had two or three jack offs with guys.

At varsity, I began to wake up to male sexuality, but I had no experiences with guys. After I got married, I had several j/o sessions with guys at the gym. Some guys also sucked me, but I was in general unwilling except for about seven opportunities.

In my thirties, I enjoyed sporadic j/o sessions and a few blow jobs. I LOVE IT! Still, I'm very scared of STD's. I really love my wife and don't want her harmed in any way. I enjoy a healthy sex life with her. We have two kids and many times she is very tired after a day. So, our sex life is not experimental even though I still love to cum in her. Sometimes she sucks me, but not as good as men. Because I love my wife so much, it is always difficult to take up an opportunity with another guy and in the majority of cases, I run away even though I crave it.

I tried to have protected anal sex with a guy, but we weren't successful and I didn't enjoy it. Sometimes I will check out Sean Cody's website and wish I can enjoy sex with men. I love hard and soft bodies. Am I crazy?

Now in my early fourties, I'm still in reasonble shape and would love some more male company. I just would like to continue my life with my family, but also have a j/o buddy on occations with whom I can be completely honest. Preferebly someone married with the same sexual feelings. Someone I could have a deep friendship who can understand my love and commitment to my wife without being jeolous.

Do I want the impossible?

I am 50 years old and have been married for 17 years. I have a wonderful wife that I love very much. Here is the scoop. I am very much into my own body and I keep my body fully shaved and tanned. I have for years enjoyed having a female friend take nude photos of me and also videos of me jacking off. I really get turned on watching them later. My wife is beautiful and sex is great and I consider myself a hetersosexual, but I have for years had fantasies about sucking another mans cock and wanting all his cum in my mouth. Not just any man, only someone that is close to me and that I can totally trust that would share my same thoughts. What I would really love to happen is for this guy to fuck my little ass really good and shoot his load deep inside of me. I have used dildos for years and it really turns me on to fill my ass with a big dildo. I just bet that a real cock would feel so so so so good. I fantasize about cum being shot all over my smooth tanned body so I could see the white cream shine against my tanned body. I get super hard on's just thinking of being fucked and sucking a cock until he cums in my mouth. I do jackoff with my legs over my head and shoot my own load in my mouth. I didn't car for it at first, but now, it is great. I am not sure if I will get a chance to act out these feelings, but I think I have a close friend that has the same feelings that we can fullfill our desires. I don't think of these feelings as gay or queer at all. I have no disire to have a loving relationship or even kiss a man, just pure ole sex. There is nothing wrong with it. My wife doesn't really enjoy sex lately and I think this also triggers my feelings to search for pleasure. All you guys just do what make you feel good and don't worry about it. Go have Sex

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I have been married now for 7 years and have a wonderful wife, but for 4 years now I have had a discreet affair with this guy I met on- line and soon after we met, we began seeing more of eachother on a regular basis. I know I am straight, but the thought of being pounded from behind and the enjoyment of giving him head makes me want to see this friend more and more. I usually meet with him at his house after work and we go to bed and have sex mostly by my being the bottom guy. Lately I have been giving him head and I love when he shoots his semen in my mouth to the point that I swallow every drop of sperm and I really enjoy it. Does this make me gay?

I’m 57 years old and have been married for 32 years. My wife and I have two lovely children now aged 27 and 24. We have always enjoyed a great sex life together and I have never been unfaithful to her. Recently she has been ill and sex has been rare lately. I’ve been looking at porn sites and masturbating to compensate. However I find myself strangely attracted to gay sites. I love looking at the naked male body. Smooth and oiled and with rock hard erections. Large cocks straining at the leash with knobbly veins really turn me on. Also pictures of fit men cumming over their chests as they maturbate has me beating my meat. I’m puzzled as I’ve never had any gay experiences. Am I abnormal, straight or gay?

Hi. I have never dated anyone of the same sex. And, I consider myself straight...but, with deep, secret fantasies...which I truly desire to become reality. It began around 13 years ago...when I was 25, back in 1994. I discovered anal masturbation...and discovered that I had ecstatic orgasms, sending waves of chills over my body...while fantasizing that I am getting fucked in my ass...so good. I didn't let those feelings control me...but, just secretly kept them to myself. I dated women...and just focused on the relationships. In time, my love for anal masturbation grew to me secretly buying pretty, sexy panties ...which I also came to love to masturbate in...fantasizing that I am some built, handsome man's pussy...to fuck as much as he wants...and as much as I desire...as I just moan an moan to great ecstasies!!!...cumming and cumming again...always so good. In time, my fantasies increased to buying dildos, of which I had to start small of course....since I had never been with a man...but, still...now...I Absolutely LOVE HUGE Dildos, for fucking, riding, sucking, and licking...I can't get enough cock now...and, it can be depressing the thought of going without a huge cock in my mouth and in my ass...I love it so much. Bottom-line, as of today, June 24, 2007, I've yet to be with a man, but would even love to marry a Beautiful Shemale with a very large cock...or, at least date one for life...as I'm not really attracted to men...but, I am very attracted to beautiful shemales and transexuals. And, I am Christian too...and, these thoughts, feelings and actions, are totally against everything I believe...yet, I love it so...and get so turned on at the thought of a very handsome guy fucking me deep and hard and cumming in me so good...while sucking another handsome built guy, and swallowing his thick, warm, juicy cum...and, most of all...waking up with a beautiful asian or hispanic transexual / shemale everyday for the rest of my life.....How I would love this to be my reality...fucking never felt so good.

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I love o masterbate, I am married and have kids, yet I also love to have sex with other men, my 1st bisex I picked up a hitch hiker in Az and offered to give him a blow job he accepted and it was great, then 20 years later I joined a phone connection and met a gay dude he was hot he and I had sex about 4 times, next I met a guy in portsmouth VA and I gave him a blow job, I just love to suck cock, I have also had 4 different guys fuck me in the ass what a feeling to have a cock up my ass and one in my mouth. so far I have given head to 20 guys and about 30 have given me head, also I have had sex with about 80 women and I am currently fucking my 28 year old daughter whom just went through a divorce, one night she brought a guy home and I knew they were having sex, I guess they thought I was asleep and the guy went to the kitchen to get a beer, I went in there also and he was naked and hot, he seemed a little startled at first and I made mentionj as to how hot he was and he asked if I would suck his cock so I did right there, my daughter must have heard the noise and she came down, what a wild night,

I am 50 years old,married,with an active sex life.I've had fantasies about men from time to time,since I was a young man.I have kissed another man twice in my life. I have not gone any further in my adult life, but as a young boy I let other boys talk me into mastrubating them, and let one boy put his penis between my legs from behind. I've never told anyone about this, at the time it made me feel uncomfortable, and could never discuss it with anyone.Both times I kissed men I was a teenager. Sometimes I wounder about a man giving me head,or me having anal sex with them. The older I get the less uncomfortable I am with it.

I have been attracted to men all my life. I remember playing with the other boys at 8 years old. I have had sex with almost every male friend that i've ever had, including co-workers, and some family members. But I don't identify myself as gay. In fact I can't stand girly men at all. I have regular sex with married latino men which is my preference. The are so sexy and willing to play with no strings attached. I will never stop this behaviour and it just feels right to me. I do feel guilty for it though. It makes me feel like a freak. Don't understand why. This seems to be the (new) thing now. And I like it.

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I always considered myself straight but over the last few years have become more and more interested in being with another man, just for sex. i'm almost 45 and have come to the conclusion that I am bisexual and as I look back I see that I had crushes on several friends in junior high school and high school, I wish I had really recognized the feelings and acted on them. my fascination with gay sex is overpowering some days and I fantasize about gay sex only. I am happily married but regret not having gay sex. the thoughts of being naked with a man, there just for sex are always in my mind, I get hard constantly when I drift into my fantasies..

As many of the readers above, I am in my 60's, married, and fantasize about sucking guys when I masturbate. I have never done anything with a guy of a sexual nature. My fantasies began six years ago when my wife lost her libido because of illness and medications. I masturbate several times a week and enjoy looking at guy's dicks on the internet. I have always been very oral, loved licking my wife's wet pussy. I think I would really enjoy sucking a guy and having him cum in my mouth. I don't want a girlfriend because they would want some kind of emotional involvement along with the sex. I just want the pleasure of jacking off while I suck some guy. Or, several guys. It would be great if he sucked me too but not required. I hope to meet some man my age who is like-minded and just wants a jackoff and suck buddy. This site makes it appear that there are a lot of guys out there who are willing but I haven't found one yet.

I've been married for almost 30 years. My wife knows about my experiences with other males, which was when i was 13 and did so with my brother and 2 other males my age. When I was 22 i had a male friend who was 16 and we enjoyed sex (no anal, nver have). Now my wife and i want to share another male together. I know there are other married guys who have the same desires. One day it will happen!!

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