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SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: My Experience, Wall's

I am a 22 year old good looking male who used to masterbate a lot - but I have very little sex (only 2 women in my life). I also had a problem getting an erection prior to intercourse (probably anxiety). Anyway, I stopped masterbating for a while...it was very difficult, but I started talking to women and so on and, got laid a whole lot more... the only explanation I have is that masterbation is a viscous circle. When I masterbate, I get rid of something that motivates me to meet women and go out more. The more I masterbate, the more frustrated I become about not having sex and the more I stay home and whack off. This make sense to anyone?

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: masterbation

I understand what you are saying here. I used to masturbate everyday for about 6 months, it got so bad that every time I would lock my door I would think about doing it. I never got caught but on my own I decided to stop. it has been a vary hard road but on the up side of things, I am starting to be a better person, my thoughts are cleaner, and I thank God everyday that I don't do it. I have a girlfriend now (we don't have sex because we know that the lord wouldn't want that and also we are afraid of everything that could happen because of it) I love her more than anything in the world and in a way I feel that I am saving it all for her. I respect her enough not to do it. I really feel that she is the one I will marry so I am going to do everything that I can to keep myself clean. And remember people, masturbation helps nothing! Oh sure it will make you feel better at the time but what about the long shot. its like you need to masturbate to feel normal again. Do yourselves a favor weather your a non-masturbator or someone who does it a lot, hold back and don't do it. you will end up in more trouble than you are already in.

SEXUALITY:
GENDER: Male
TITLE: truth

I'm telling all of you now. get out of this crap while you still can. after a while you will feel like you cant stop. you don't want any of this. take it from a man who has been all the way there and had to crawl his way back. let me tell you something; I will never masterbate again and I know I am happier because of it. those of you who respect women, take this as a warning. if you really respect them, wouldnt it be better if you didn't think of them as some kind of sex toy? your minds will be clearer and your hearts as well.. Again, take it from me, you don't want this. get out.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: stop doing it

I use to do it a lot between like 17 to 18. But wanted to be more focussed on meeting a girl. I was caught in the horrible cycle. It was like I wanted to masturbate every day. First I did that like once a week or so, but then it became a daily habit. It took me 3 months to rid myself of it. After I got it stopped, I focussed on women as my only means of release and it worked! I met women all the time, had good sex with them and every time I wanted to have release I go out finding it in the right way. Not wasting it, but doing the right thing. I am 20 now, this way it makes me happier and I feel more like a man.

SEXUALITY: Homosexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Addicted to Masturbation

I am a 52 year old female and am totally addicted to masturbation. A few months ago I started looking at websites for masturbation and found this site. I had an eye opening experience: a young girl wrote she always had a bad day or bad luck after masturbating. I realize the same thing was happening to me: either some annoyance or something major..because I am pre-occupied with my masterbation fantasies. I was up to 4 or 5 times a day and could do plenty more. Since July I have been aware of my problem but still get to it twice a day and still unable to orgasm with a man. My orgasms during masturbation are incredible and this is a very difficult habit for me to give up. This has been my pattern since I was 15. comments welcomed.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Robert\Too Much

I can't say if masturbating is good or bad. I think like everything, too much is not good. I find myself going through phases with masturbation. I'm 30yrs old now and I've been masturbating since I was 11. Sometimes you feel open about it and others you find yourself withdrawn. When I was young I masterbated everywhere. When I was 14 and 15 I was let go from 2 summer jobs, I was that obsessed and could not get any work done. My aunt caught me at it in her bathroom that year too. I was just cumming when she walked into her bathroom. I had to do a lot of chores to keep her from telling my parents and her being a very religious woman, she took me to confessions and stod outside the box listening to make sure I told the priest everything. That was very embarrassing. When I went 16 to 19 it didn't bother me that much. When I was 20 and 21 it struck again. I was at college and staying in digs with this elderly lady and my other housemate was a girl about 18. I really messed that time at college up. I would go out, get drunk and come back and masturbate for hours on end in my room. The two women was sure to have heard me because of the adjoining rooms, but I just didn't care. I was caught by a security woman masturbating in the unisex showers in the local swimming pool after a very slim and attractive girl had left the showers. She didn't report me, but I had to go to her house everyday and perform sexual favours on her and her husband. She was a fat, lardy, specky woman and having to touch her and her husband made me cringe. On the last night she invited round her friends for a hen night. There was six of them, all the same and she made me masturbate in front of them while they played with themselves. After that I decided I was going off masturbation. From then on masturbation was a rare occurance until last year. I found myself having a wank before I went to bed every night. Now sometimes at work I find myself going to the restroom and having a quick one maybe once or twice a day. I find myself getting more into it again. Maybe after writting this it'll help me stop because I know I'll get caught sometime as it is gaining momentum. I really do think it can mess you up if it becomes too much.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER:
TITLE: To Jack or Not To jack?

I agree that too much of anything is not good for us, but come on jacking off is the human natural thing to do. The number one lie for a guys is that he dosen't masturbate. Sometime I really wonder if thats the problem. Most of us growing up heard all the reasons not to, but when you stop and look back, did you go blind? Your mother was the one telling you all about the horriable things that masturbation was going to do to you, I never heard my dad say anything wrong about it. Guys are always going to jack off. Maybe a medical condition has you jacking off to the point you are not able to perform lifes functions, please go get some help from the professional's. Normal guys jack off and will always jack off...

SEXUALITY: Virgin
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Ryua

All thos tips and such about how not to masturbate make no sense to me. The more I exercise and eat right, the more I participate in social activities, the more religious I get (ironically), the more I masturbate. I don't watch porn or read erotic materials. Sometimes, the need to rub is just like an itch that needs to be scratched; sometimes, it's a burning need. Anyhow, I find it a healthy expression of my confidence and youth. As a committed virgin, it releases tension and frustration that would otherwise be released through desperate booty call searches!

ive been masterbating since I was 13. I use to masterbate like 7 or 8 times a day when I was that young. then everday. twice a day maybe. and I battled not doing it for the longest time. I went a week. maybe 2 sometimes. but id end up doing it again and fell into old patterns. now I am having relations with my gf. so I decided to stop masterbating for her. I know that this is the time that I have quit. because I love her so much and its all for her. plus its good protein for her. why should I waste my protein to the toliet when she can have a very nutrious calcium feeding.

I feel stronger everyday. and my workout is better as a result. im 5'3 and I bench nearly 200lb.

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My views on masturbation and sexuality is that I think that they're both good and bad. I say this because judging from my personal experiences, I enjoyed masturbation from ages 4 until about my late teens and early 20's when this thing started to happen where I would still enjoy the physical sensation of masturbation, but before and afterwards I would feel like crap when it came to my moods. Therefore I eventually started feeling guilty about sexuality and masturbation not because of any religious dogma but because I felt that sexuality had taken on a life of it's own and became a monster phenomenom that started to interfere with my everyday life. First, back in 2003, it felt like some kind of catastrophic computer virus. Starting in January 2005, the sexual guilt really got brutal to the point where I felt that there was a bloody war between me and sexuality and this lasted ten months off and on. It got so bad that I almost committed suicide over this. Then came December 2005 this feud between me and sexuality has started to subside but I see sexuality and masturbation as a neccessary evil.

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Yes,I repent of doing masturbation,too much because of its unwanted side effects such as premature ejaculation,fatigue of after doing this damned thing! First of all,I do it twice a week.But an essential thing is giving up it or substituting it with other such as sex-toys or intercourse...

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I was raised in a Christian family, where I was taught masturbation is bad, but I've come to disagree. I used to feel guilt afterwards, but I've started to overcome this. I realize that the release of masturbation keeps me from more destructive behavior like cutting, or rampant sex. I think God can forgive my masturbation if it allows me to save my body for my wife rather than have sex now. I do have to learn to keep my thoughts and fantasies cleaner, though.

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I been mastubating for about 4 years now and I have tried to quit many times but it has been a very difficult task. I have quit and I do feel a lot stronger. If you have trouble quitting masterbating seeking god in your life would be a good idea. God gave you sperm to make to reproduce not to waste by jacking off. Even though you make enough sperm for life you shuold conserve it and save it for the one person you are going to marry.

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Hi, I found this site because I had a major problem with masterbating. And have prayed for 6 years to try to be a good clean person, amongst other social and mental problems.

I first masterbated at age 5-6, and did it all the time untill only 4 years ago.

I never felt weak, or a less a person untill I was hit on, and somehow, through my fu*kn idiosity masterbated with another bloke, who was 45 yo, when I was age 16-17. I do not promote the idea, but feel I was mentally, and physically and probably spirirtualy pressured to do it. Long story, cut short. Anyhow, I felt dirty, and like a gay, for this for years, and suffered mental health issues up to this day. I felt great relief and happiness during masterbation, but once finished, hated myself, and how dirty I feel every time I did prior to the 4 years. I may have come close while playing with my fionce to cuming, but never allowed it, knowing the feeling I get when I di it all myself. Even when my partner did it, I would feel weaker and dominated by my misses because of it, which is prob just my mental condition.

I do urge all people who feel guilty, or dirty, to try to stop it, and go out on the street, or the movies, or talk to a priest at a church, and make a confession about it, and go back every time u feel totaly filthy about yourself. And this will stop you, well it should and might, due to the embaressment of confessing the masterbation. I would love to do it, but hope I never do ever again, and have made confessions, and asked for help from the Father at the Church, although I am not baptised or a heavy church goer. Although sometimes I wish I was to live free of SIN((, which masterbating is a sin I feel. Also to stop it, think of how dirty a dog looks when it masterbates, and how dirty, and socialy unaceptable, and a waist of good healthy spearm is it. I hate masterbating, but love how it feels at the time, and love watching females do it, but wish I had stoped them when I think of how I have let them down by not providing clean leadership, by that, they may have depression later, like most people, me for one feel.

I hope this helps, assures, and helps me continue to STOP MASTERBATING.......Arrr, I love and Hate the Idea..

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I dont know that its definitely good or bad. When I dont do it, it does feel better and I have more energy and I can focus better and exercise better. but sexual tensions do develop and other life steresses and than it is the only activity that relieves stress. it never helps so I can say its bad but it always relieves stress in the end when nothing else works. both sexual and other life stress. that is why I know it is not good for me and religion forbids it but I also know that its hard to stop.

I have this gay friend who owns a private gym and around lunch time he closes it off and uses it exclusively for himself and a few friends. They do what he calls testosterone building. They work out with an erection to keep the testosterone level high. They sort of rotate, taking turns helping each other stay erect. At the end of the session everyone does something called kegels then ejaculates. A few ejaculate during the work-out too but most refrain and just do it once at the end. He knew several other private gyms that practiced this so it must be fairly common. Although I'm not gay, I have no hang-ups and it seemed to make sense. Also, there is a strict no sex policy, hands only, so I joined in a few times to give it a try. I could feel the difference in only a week and have been an avid member for 3 months now. Only possible downside for me is that my appetite for ejaculating seems has grown as has my overall libido which sometimes interferes with my concentration unless I attend to it. This is the opposite of what I would have expected. With the risk of drugs in sports, why don't we hear more about this option? Thanks

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For the first time i see other people that feel the same way i do. i tried to talk to someone bout my bestfriend i said to him, everytime i masterbate i have bad luck right after,something bad happens, but he just laughed said it was all mental. I was never really into doing iT i mean yea once in a blue moon. i Had a relationship with a girl i loved and i still do but then i started getting addicted to masterbating and evrything went down hill. i would always get bad luck i lost everything even the love of my life. but then when i stop masterbating things start to look up for me; my problem is i can only last for a week or two without doing it... PLEASE SOMEONE GIVE ME ADDVICE HOW TO STOP PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!

Perhaps one can't stop masturbating, once experienced the pleasure it gives. But there could be a very simple method to masturbate less. Masturbate more than you naturally need, e.g. twice a day when you only need once or less. You will have the mental sensation that you you are quitting masturbation when coming to your natural jerk off frenquency.

I am totally addicted to porn and masturbation. I love to do it, and make sure I do 1-2 times a day. After I feel SO guilty and hate that I have done it. It has effected the sex I have with my girlfriend because if we have sex the day after I've touched myself I have a really hard time orgasming because I am used to my hand, not her's. After touching myself, she can only usually give me an orgasm by going down on me. I've done a little research and it seems as though I am not the only person in the world who is addicted the way I am. Has anyone been able to stop or slow down the habit. Or any helpful comments on my situation? Please help!!

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My college instructor gave us an assignment to write college essay about controversial issues around the circle of sex, not specifically mentioning about Masturbation. I looked into homo and heterosexual marriages, rapes, and several other topics that pertain to this title. I accidentally jumped into the ocean of Masturbation online that really attracted my attention. In order to get better clue about what everyone feels about it, I surfed governmental, religious, cultural, educational, personal and medical websites to see the ratio of the number of people who have experienced negative impact by exercising masturbation to those have had little or no impacts as the result of masturbation, not to mention the number of those who don’t because I have never seen someone who hasn’t at least once in life time. All I could see is negative impacts it has caused to so many people, and words of regrets they render as well as the depressions most of them have experienced, not to mention male baldness as well as erection problem and many other physical, mental and health problems it contributes. I also found out that it is a common drive that every one of us is vulnerable to. I wish the guy who trimmed his penis has known the fact that he is not the only person who felt the same way because of what feels very nasty act afterward. I also found out the degree of our impact, positively or negatively, is very much relevant to the environment where we are brought up. If a child is grown up around religious or open family who openly oppose this habit, the impact of negative impressions is more sever, psychologically disturbing and mentally debilitating. Generally speaking, this is psychological war that the majority of human family struggle with ALONE until we all reach the age where we stop sexual drive or until we get married and get settled, which is not always true in some cases. Thus, whoever feels nasty about it, please, just come down and deal with it gradually. I is so bad that this issue is not usually discussed on media openly like many other issues even though it disturbs so many of us out there including even the psychologists themselves, the doctors, country leaders, counselors, and religious fanatics. I am most grateful that so many of us drop our words and what we feel about it under the cover of internet without publicly exposing who we are which is excellent. I would encourage everyone to discuss about this issue and contribute meaningful ideas that may help us all and the generation to come. I personally feel that this is unnecessary physical practice that negatively disturbs metal well-being. I believe it is the best opportunity to learn how to manipulate our bodies rather than allowing our body to manipulate us. We should show our drive that we can control it. If we have the power over our body by controlling one drive, then we will have strong influence over the others such as drugs, smoking, anger, and many other hurting habits. I feel like if I can control this, there is no reason NOT to control the others and gain lasting mental peace. Why should I feel ashamed in front of my friends or class mates or colleagues or audiences when I see them and remember what I have done few minuets or days ago in my private practice? Please, make it real for your self and show your body that you are the king over yourself. Alexander the Great was the most powerful war leader of all times, according to ancient history, but he was not so powerful enough to control his habit. As the result of his alcohol habit, he was slain by ordinary solders in front of his palace. That was shameful death. According to the book of Proverb, the ordinary person who rules himself is mightier than the one who rules the city but not himself. Therefore, tell yourself NO to what is WRONG.

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I have noticed a string of bad luck after masterbating like a couple of other people have posted. For instance, things would be going fine for months,then following an internet porn/masturbation session my car was rear-ended later that same day! It has happened too many times like this over the years to just be a coincidence. What is the deal?

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