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MASTURBATION ARCHIVE 25
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Female Masturbation Techniques and Opinions

Gender: Female

I was introduced to sex at a young age, because I'd been abused. The experiences were traumatic, but at the same time, I developed a heightened interest in sexual activity. I became very creative in seeking ways to stimulate myself over the years. I masturbated frequently and was able to reach orgasm by age five. I usually just stroked my clitoris and labia, sometimes for hours in bed at night.I could also reach orgasm, though not as intense, by scratching or rubbing myself over my pants. Moving the clitoral hood back and forth rapidly felt good too. Other times I rocked myself on a banister or a pillow, but more for pleasure, not to reach orgasm. Sometimes I used a soft item or sponge in the bath to rub myself with, it felt so good when I soaped it up and slid it back and forth. I was in pa I n and uncomfortable in that area a lot of the time as a child, so I think this kind of became my escape of sorts. Anyhow, when I was eight or nine,I found a copy of a "toy" catalog hidden in my dad's file cabinet, and was captivated by the scenes. I didn't take it out of fear of getting caught, but returned frequently for visits. When I was about ten and took showers, I became more aware of my body. I loved looking at myself standing up.I found out how good the shower spray felt, by age eleven I believe. I was able to achieve multiple orgasms and spent a lot of time in there. I found that the steady sprays at lower powers worked better than the faster, more pulsating ones. When I didn't have a showerhead with this option, I just pushed the lever over so it was between cycles, and/or put a finger over the spray jets, to alter the intensity. In my early teens I discovered the bathub faucet, and also started penetrating myself.

Since that time I've learned a variety of other techniques. Teasing yourself then backing off is very helpful. Generally the more prolonged you make this, the more intense the orgasm will be. A feather duster is nice for this purpose, esp before taking a shower. Pulling a cord of some kind through your labia, front to back (wash it and your genitals thoroughly first and after!) is very pleasurable....I once had a chrome showerhead cord that was textured, and when soaped up, felt wonderful going through. Those long loofa-style back scrubbers or even the loofa pads feel nice when rubbing them against yourself. Textured or wavy shampoo or shower gel containers also feel great when soapy and rubbed over the clitoris. I am moving soon, and am looking forward to getting both a whirpool again, and one of those special new showers with the jets that come out of the walls...I imagine that they're very stimulating. (I have to laugh when some of the advertisements claim they're there for muscle relaxation....yeah right!!)

I found my G-spot a few years ago. Yes, it does exist, and the orgasms are very different than clitoral ones. I'm not sure how to explain it, but when starting to masturbate in this way, you don't expect that you'll be climaxing...it more feels as if you're going to urinate. I find that tapping the area lightly and repeatedly is the best way to do it. When I finally am able to have an orgasm, it's very intense and deep, and lasts...but again, it is very different than clitoral. I know some women claim they can reach orgasm from it through intercourse, but I'm not sure how this would work...I think it would require something more than the missionary position, but not sure. Have never been able to find it that way myself.

I noticed that some women on here said they were embarrassed to get a dildo or vibrator, but in fact, you don't need one. You can order a "personal massager" from a general-purpose catalog like Dr Leonards or Harriet Carter, some of them can be inserted, but they aren't very strong. I dont recommend those finger strap-on massagers - repeated vibration to the hands can cause circulatory and other problems, so holding a massager with a glove on or towel around it is a good idea. Massagers also shouldnt be used for extended periods nor several times daily, to avoid loss of sensation. It can be alternated with more manual methods, and should be, so you don't become too reliant on mechanical stimulation. What I like to do is wash a carrot, soak it in hot water so it's nice and warm, then rub it between my labia for a while. The slipperyness and heat on the clitoral area is very nice.I don't need extra lubrication as I'm always ready to go it seems, but if you do, some vaseline can help. You can "carve" the carrot a bit, to make it more textured if you prefer. (Candles, as well as those plastic cigar holders work too, but you can't heat them up as well. Cigar holders can be washed after use, but candles can't be cleaned sufficiently and should be discarded. Never use coke bottles - the air can create a vacum and get stuck inside of you - it's very hard to make an excuse for at the doctor's office. A large-handle screwdriver works well too, but always wash it well, and insert the handle only, never the metal part.) Getting back to the carrot, the warmth is very nice, and when I'm ready, I insert it. You can either thrust it in and out (not too violently though unless it's really thick, to avoid breakage) or use it as a vibrator. I then push it inside to a comfortable level, and leave it there.

I take an external massager (the stronger the better - handheld vibration or percussion massagers can be purchased just about anywhere by people of all ages...you can buy some scented candles and shower gel and gift wrap if you're embarrassed to buy this, to make it look like it's a gift for someone.) Hold the massager against the base of the carrot or other object....it feels wonderful...Depending on the quality of the massager you use, it can be more intense than a vibrator. You can elevate your bottom with several pillows for more intense stimulation, tilt your head back, and take slow, deep, rhythmic breaths for maximum pleasure.The breathing is important and really does help extend the pleasure. Watching yourself in a mirror can be really satisfying, or you can get plenty of free pictures online.I don't like looking at hardcore or violent stuff myself, but find just plain, almost natural pictures of males and females to be the most stimulating. I also enjoy different handheld massager models for clitoral stimulation, my favorite being the percussion massager. You can hold it over your clothes (might want to put on a pad first, though) and use it that way - it's a bit too intense for direct skin contact. Again, pillows under the bottom help, and you can insert things in yourself while doing this. It's great for when you're in a hurry and need a "quick fix."

No privacy? Most of this can be done in the bathroom, just turn the tub water on to muffle sounds, and keep massagers away from the water for safety. I read something about someone being concerned re. masturbating during her period - trust me, it's a good idea! It not only feels good, but does help to relieve cramps naturally by contracting the uterus. I use the showerhead method during this time, so all the blood is washed away. (Being safety-conscious, remember never to spray water directly into your vagina - it can cause a fatal air embolism to form. I spray it on or around the clitoris, or if in a whirpool or pool, position myself in front of, not over, the jets.

One final note - I have learned a lot since my childhood and am still working on healing from the abuse. Most everyone has sexual needs, and self-pleasure is a natural and safe way to fulfill them, regardless of your background experience. I hope that younger women/girls are reading this, and find some techniques that they enjoy. There's no need to feel guilty about doing these things, as they're perfectly natural, and do not hurt anyone. I would have enjoyed myself a lot more had I not been abused and felt so guilty about pleasuring myself. Children naturally have some sexual interest (though not usually erotic or on the same level as adults, if they haven't been abused), and I think it's really important that they understand it's normal and that there's nothing wrong with making their bodies feel good.

So I just wanted to mention that to anyone who might be feeling a little edgy! I plan to be very open with my own kids someday, and make sure they know it's ok to do as needed. I also hope that by being open with them, that they'll come to me if anything ever happens to them, and will keep our communication open.I think it's amusing that the same parents who criticize their teens for being sexually active, also refuse to properly educate them about masturbation, due to embarrassment or disgust. I happen to think that it's a very normal function, and that it makes sense for people to want to feel good...so what is everyone so ashamed of? People blow their noses when they run, or scratch an itch...what is so terrible about responding when one feels aroused? (In the play The Vagina Monologues, I vageuly remember one scene where a woman was (mockingly- seriously) talking about how it's legal to own handguns in every state, but some states outlaw the sale of vibrators.... yet t here have never been any mass-killings due to vibrator useage reported as of yet, as opposed to the guns. It was funny, had to be seen in context though!)

Adolescence is a difficult period of adjustment, and I think it's a parent's responsibility to cover all aspects of sexuality with their kids - not just the ones that they're comfortable with themselves. Otherwise, the teens will feel somewhat compelled to turn to alternatives to fulfill their needs, like sexual intercourse at early ages.... and how can blame them, if we inform them of no other outlets? Anyhow, hope these suggestions have been helpful, will write in again sometime.

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